Lets Get romantic, shall we?
Last year, my Valentines day post earned my quite a bit of hate mail. But, I suppose when you label your post “How Blow Jobs and Shoe Shopping Are Alike,” That’s bound to happen.
But the post wasn’t about blow jobs, or shoe shopping, and the hate mail was largely from single women who had never been in a successful long term relationships, and exclusively from people who didn’t read the entire thing.
The post is about figuring out what your partner needs to feel important and giving it to them gladly and frequently. Because although the “Golden Rule” is Treat Others How You Would Like To Be Treated, I think that might be what’s wrong with most relationships.
Because, really, treating someone how YOU would like to be treated is pretty self-involved and arrogant. How about Treat Others How THEY Would Like To Be Treated and maybe we would have a higher marriage success rate as a nation. Because although you might think you’ve done everything you can for your partner, maybe the problem is that you’re asking, “What else can I do?” rather than, “What do they need?”
Can you tell I have a Masters in Psychology? I would have made a terrible therapist, but I make a killer risotto.
So here it is, with some beer and butter poached lobster.
For this recipe I used Saison Rue from The Bruery.